Never had a meaningful girlfriend or relationship? Â

Never had a meaningful girlfriend or relationship?  

answers 0:HI. I'm in my late teens and I'm still a virgin ( That's not the point I'll be making today). My point is, I can get girls interested in me (or so it seems) and we flirt and such, but nothing ever really goes any further. I consider myself a nice guy, I hope others see me that way too, but it seems I've never been in an actual relationship where both parties love, or at least like, each other. I don't know if there's just something wrong with me? Let me explain:Katie.I was at a barbeque at my friends party and there was a girl I was kind of interested in. Her name was Katie. But I knew Katie seemed interested in my other friend, Dan. So at this party I started speaking to her and we started flirting, almost to the point of kissing. Until I got a text from Dan, who was petty peed off. He asked me to stop flirting with her, because they were into each ot! her. So I stopped. I would've thought Dan would go down stairs and maybe at least talk to Katie, but he didn't. Turns out, Katie never really liked Dan. I could of been with her and he ruined that for me.Emma: This one was only very recent. So I'd been talking to a girl, Emma. We'd known each other through mutual friends and met up with those friends in the past, but never really spoke. So for about a month, we just talk as friends - Long story short - We had a bit of a thing, kissing eg. and it fell apart soon as she told me she just wanted to be friends. I promise you I could come up with moe stories, but they all just end the same way ( I even lost one of my closest friends over a girl, and we haven't spoken in almost a year - I regret that).Anyway, I don't seem myself as some kind of stud. Until recently, I had dental problems, so that could of contributed to the lack of girls... Who knows. perhaps it's confidence issues, o maybe I just don't know the right time to talk! relationships with girls. Anyway. Has someone else out thee e! xperienced the same or similar issues? and how did you/are you overcome/overcoming those? Help please? Thanks....Show moreanswers 1:I can understand how you must view yourself, having been in a similar boat myself. From what you've said, it seems like your a great guy. While I don't know what it is that keeps girls from flocking to you, I will say that it almost seems like you're afraid of rejection. This is completely acceptable and everyone feels it. A solution to that, I think, is to just say to yourself that it's okay that it didn't work out. She may not be the one. Without speaking out of line, I would also consider your friends as a factor to this. If your friends are trying to hold you back or dictate who you can like, I would confront them about it. You don't have to lose them over it, just let them know how that's not fair to you. Finally, as to the dental problems, if girls can't see past that, it's their loss.Hope that helps somehow!...